This page is dedicated to all of you that grieve for a close family member or dearest friend, my sincere condolences to you all. I do hope that you find some comfort with the words below, I do hope that it helps in some small way.
Thanks to Gregory Haye Communicator of the White Cloud Group talking about Mourning
Doris Stokes renown medium recites a beautiful poem for all of you that have sadly lost children.
This is the link to my page on the Psychic-Spiritual Network, where you will be able to find people whom sadly have one thing in common, they have all lost children and are helping each other.
On Reflection we can see, What a hard life this can be. The pain you suffered took its toll. But you were brave, strong and you were bold. Never moaning and quite often amusing, Sometimes I found this quite confusing. How can this man have such strength and not fold When others complain so much about a cold……. Strong till the last and now a new beginning, Like a bird that has found it’s voice and can’t stop singing,
Dedicated to my Uncle Eddie written by Bernie for being such a strong willed man.
Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free, I'm following the path God laid for me. I took his hand when I heard his call, I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day, To laugh, to love, to work, to play. Tasks left undone must stay that way, I've found that peace at the end of the day.
If my parting has left a void, Then fill it with remembered joy. A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss, Ah, yes, these things too I will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow, I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow. My Life's been full, I savoured much, Good friends, good times, a loved one' touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief, Don't lengthen it now with undue grief. Lift up your heart and share with me, God wanted me now, He set me free.
We little knew that morning that God was going to call your name, In life we loved you dearly,in death we do the same. It broke our hearts to lose you, you did not go alone. For part of us went with you, the day God called you home. You left us peaceful memories, your love is still our guide, And though we cannot see you, you are always at our side. Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same, But as God calls us one by one, the chain will link again.
--Author Unknown— __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ A Silent Tear
Just close your eyes and you will see All the memories that you have of me Just sit and relax and you will find I'm really still there inside your mind Don’t cry for me now I'm gone For I am in the land of song There is no pain, there is no fear So dry away that silent tear Don’t think of me in the dark and cold For here I am, no longer old I'm in that place that’s filled with love Known to you all, as "UP ABOVE" Unknown
________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Death is nothing at all
I have only slipped away into the next room I am I and you are you whatever we were to each other that we still are call me by my old familiar name speak to me in the easy way which you always used put no difference in your tone wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together pray smile, think of me, pray for me Let my name be ever the household word that it always was Let it be spoken without effort without the trace of a shadow in it Life means all that it ever meant it is the same as it ever was there is unbroken continuity why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am waiting for you somewhere very near just around the corner All is well Unknown
Don't weep at my grave, For I am not there, I've a date with a butterfly to dance in the air. I'll be singing in the sunshine, Wild and free, Playing tag with the wind, Please dont weep for me. How can i live What am i to do Now apart of my heart, Is buried with you?
________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ His Journey's Just Begun
Don't think of him as gone away his journey's just begun, life holds so many facets this earth is only one.
Just think of him as resting from the sorrows and the tears in a place of warmth and comfort where there are no days and years.
Think how he must be wishing that we could know today how nothing but our sadness can really pass away.
And think of him as living in the hearts of those he touched... for nothing loved is ever lost and he was loved so much.
Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free I’m following the path God has laid you see. I took His hand when I heard him call I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day To laugh, to love, to work, to play. Tasks left undone must stay that way I found that peace at the close of day.
If my parting has left a void Then fill it with remembered joy. A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss Oh yes, these things I too will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow. My life’s been full, I savored much Good friends, good times, a loved one’s touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief Don’t lengthen it now with undue grief. Lift up your hearts and peace to thee God wanted me now; He set me free.
And saw an empty place. He then looked down from heaven, And saw your tired face. He knew that you were suffering, And a cure was not to be. So he put his arms around you, And whispered,"Come with me." With tearful eyes we watched you, As you slowly slipped away. And though we loved you dearly, We could not make you stay. Many times we've needed you, And many times we've cried. If love could have saved you, You never would have died. --Anonymous--
Friend, please don't mourn for me I'm still here, though you don't see. I'm right by your side each night and day And within your heart I long to stay.
My body is gone but I'm always near. I'm everything you feel, see or hear. My spirit is free, but I'll never depart As long as you keep me alive in your heart.
I'll never wander out of your sight- I'm the brightest star on a summer night. I'll never be beyond your reach- I'm the warm moist sand when you're at the beach.
I'm the colourful leaves when Autumn's around And the pure white snow that blankets the ground. I'm the beautiful flowers of which you're so fond, The clear cool water in a quiet pond.
I'm the first bright blossom you'll see in the spring, The first warm raindrop that April will bring. I'm the first ray of light when the sun starts to shine, And you'll see that the face in the moon is mine.
When you start thinking there's no one to love you, You can talk to me through the Lord above you. I'll whisper my answer through the leaves on the trees, And you'll feel my presence in the soft summer breeze.
I'm the hot salty tears that flow when you weep And the beautiful dreams that come while you sleep. I'm the smile you see on a baby's face. Just look for me, friend, I'm every place!
“I’ll lend you for a little while A child of mine” God said – For you to love the while he lives and mourn for when he’s dead. It may be six or seven years or forty two or three but will you, till I call him back, take care of him for me? He’ll bring his charms to gladden you and, should his stay be brief, you’ll have his nicest memories as solace for his grief. I cannot promise he will stay, since all from earth return but, there are lessons taught below, I want this child to learn. I’ve looked the whole world over, in my search for teachers true, and from the things that crowd life’s lane I have chosen you. Now will you give him all your love, nor think the labour vain, nor hate me when I come to take this lent child back again? I fancied that I heard them say, “Dear Lord Thy Will Be Done” for all the joys thy child will bring the risk of grief will run. We’ll shelter him with tenderness, we’ll love him while we may, and for the happiness we’ve known forever grateful stay. But, should thy Angels call for him much sooner than we planned, we’ll brave the grief that comes and try to understand.
________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Stairway to Heaven
They say memories are golden, Well, maybe that is true; I never wanted memories, I only wanted you.
A million times I needed you, A million times I cried; If love alone could have saved you, You never would have died.
In life I loved you dearly, In death I love you still; In my heart you hold a piece No one could ever fill.
But now I know you want me To mourn for you no more, To remember the happy times Life still has much in store.
Since you'll never be forgotten I pledge to you today; A hallowed place within my heart Is where you'll always stay.
If tears could build a stairway And heartache make a lane; I'd walk the path to heaven And bring you back again.
Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same; But as God calls us one by one, The chain will link again.
On Reflection we can see, What a hard life this can be. The pain you suffered took its toll. But you were brave, strong and you were bold. Never moaning and quite often amusing, Sometimes I found this quite confusing. How can this man have such strength and not fold When others complain so much about a cold……. Strong till the last and now a new beginning, Like a bird that has found it’s voice and can’t stop singing,